Sorry I have been mia lately, I have been dealing with some family issues and then went on vaca to get away from the drama only to rush back to colorado for my cousin who had been shot in the movie theatre shooting and was in critical condtion. She is now ok and doing well she only has a split bone in left shoulder that will take time to heal and scars and physical therapy for the wound on her leg that went through the back muscle in her right leg. She should be released from the hospital later this week. So i will still be in and out until things calm down with her and the rest of the family issues. The good news is while I have been dealing with drama FI has been working away on diy wedding stuff so I am not that far behind on wedding stuff.