Ok first off neither my fiance nor I are super traditional but I'm trying to figure out the bridesmaid and groomsmen situation. First of all his best "man" is female and my "maid" of honor is male I also have one male bridesmaid. Right now the set up is two guys and two girls on my side (4 total) and he has 5 people in for his groomsmen putting 4 guys and one girl on his side. Now I know TRADITIONALLY the numbers are supposed to be even and the gender are supposed to pair up but evidently we aren't traditionalists. Now what I'm trying to figure out is whether or not it's ABSOLUTELY necessary for each of us to have 5? Also I'm trying to figure out in my head how they would walk down the isle any ideas? I don't know much about weddings and haven't been to many so I'm not very good at visualizing things.