I've seen in multiple places having
___ accepts with pleasure
___ declines with regret
My family says thats rude because you're "putting words in peoples mouths", is it rude? I do NOT want to be rude as I'm making my own invites, I was simply taking from what I've seen on sample invites. What did/are you ladies going to put for the rsvp card wording?
Re: Accepts/Declines question
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Sometimes I feel like people think that brides are delicate little flower princesses who get all dressed up and pretty for one special moment of their dreams, when really they're just normal people who just happen to be getting married. Things shouldn't have to be sugar-coated for grown-ass women. -mstar284
ETA: Also, you're not really putting words into people mouths. Etiquette-wise, it is perfectly acceptable for guests to reply on their own stationary instead of using the supplied reply cards. If guests are uncomfortable with the sentiments of declining with regret or accepting with pleasure, they can write their own reply with whatever words they would like
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i wrote the same thing for my invitations b/c i thought it sounded appropriate.
i didnt like _will attend_will not attend....
i thought that sounded like a backyard bbq invitations.
i wanted my invtations to sound formal and i used the same as you did.
dont worry what your family says.
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