My FI has not wanted to know numbers for the guest list other than how many invitations we are sending which is 145. For some reason it didn't dawn on him that the number of possible attendees was higher than that, and he's now freaking out over the possibility of a full church (250)!
I explained to him that I can already figure about 70-75 people who won't be attending but who should be invited but he's still freaking out since it's not the number he has in his head.
Now he wants to not invite some of them and just send them announcements instead. It does make sense for the ones I know won't make it, but I think sending them invitations is much nicer - especially as they all received the STD!
Your thoughts?