1) Do you think it's a bad idea to send out the rsvp's first to see who responds then once I get them send out the invitations? The only reason why I wanted to do it this way is because I can only have a certain number of people at the venue.
2) Also is it tacky to put on the rsvp cards the number of adults being invited and children.
For example:
Mr.&Mrs. Smith and family. We have reserved a seating for 4 adults & 2 children.
( ) of the 4 adults will attend
( ) of the 2 children will attend