The invitations I chose are pretty casual and "eco-friendly," with the RSVP card attached to the invitation itself (and a perforated line to detach them). Do I still have to include an envelope (and the traditional inserts, like the tissue paper - what's up with that?) inside the invitation, especially since I'm giving guests the option to RSVP via our wedding website? I am including a reception card since our ceremony and reception are in two different places, hours apart (at 3 and 7). And I'm wondering how to address the invitations - my writing is big, swirly and not easily legible while my boyfriend is called "the human typewriter" - I wanted them done in pretty, neat cursive (and I can't find a calligrapher in my area). Suggestions?