So I had a question about etiquette. I'm not doing inner envelopes because I am having pocket invitations. We are inviting our first cousins, who are under the age of 18, is it wrong to say Mr. & Mrs. John Doe & Family on the outer envelope. I mean some of aunts/uncles have 3-4 kids and that seems like alot to write out on the outer envelope. All these etiquette websites forbid "and family," but I don't see what the big deal is, especially if your not using an inner envelope.
What do you think?