I have a nice lady desiging our invites, and we have worded on it We have reserved __ seats in your honor.
He thinks we should just take that out, and let our guests decide how many are coming.
He doesn't mind kids there, I just want close family friends. He said to do whatever I want, but don't want to make him upset.
I don't think it's rude to put that, I tried explaining why I'd like to do this, but he doesn't get it.