I swear I have read a ton of posts on this, but am still totally confused. Does "hosting" basically mean "paying"?
My FI and I are paying for the wedding ourselves. I think our invitations should read as we are hosting. I am also open to the "together with their families" wording, it just seems a little weird to me as we are older and have been living together for years.
FI would like the invitations to be worded "traditionally" as my parents requesting the honor of your presence.... His reason is that he thinks my parents should have some "ownership" of the wedding. Meaning, if someone comes up to my dad to say "nice wedding", my dad will feel like he's had some part in it. I hope I'm explaining that right. It honestly doesn't even make that much sense to me
Anyway, I guess I'm just asking who does the invite come from? Is it just who's paying?