My fiance and his family's guest list is too big. I would like to have 250 people be the max number of people for budgeting reasons as well as I always wanted a little bit of a smaller wedding - I know, 250 people is not exactly small haha. Anyway, my fiance's guest list is at 210 which is after he and his family cut it down from close to 250. I think it would be fair if we split the guest list 50/50 between our families but I don't want to hurt his feelings or his family's feelings and make them cut out people they really want to be there. How do I approach this? Any suggestions would be wonderful!