Wedding Invitations & Paper

Adults-only Etiqutte

My fiance and I are having an adults-only wedding (with the exception of my niece who is the flower girl) and we are wondering if it would be appropriate to put the fact that it is adults-only on our wedding website.  We are following all invitation etiquette and listing specifically who is invited on the invites, but you always have those few who don't get that.  Would putting it on the website also be ok?  And if so, where would you put it?
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Re: Adults-only Etiqutte

  • I think on the website is OK, and I would put it somewhere that sort of obviously but not obnoxiously. Unfortunately the people who get it will see it and those who don't get it from the invitation probably won't care anyway from the website.
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  • Technically this would break etiquette because you're not supposed to ever advertise publicly who is NOT invited.

    Practically, I'm not sure how many people are aware of wedding websites or look at them if they are aware, so it may not work anyway.

    It's probably best to just anticipate the awkward conversation that almost inevitably results by having a child-free wedding.
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  • When my friend sent out invitations. There was a line on the RSVP card that said kids weren't invited (that's when I told my boyfriend he wasn't allowed to come. ;0) - we laughed) but I guess that worked because there weren't any kids at the wedding.
  • I would just make it extra clear on your response cards exactly who is invited.

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  • I having this same issue.. I do like that last option
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