I like the traditional wedding invite wording (Mr. and Mrs. X request the honor of your presence at the wedding of their daughter X to Y son of Z at blah blah blah) so I wrote it up and sent to my parents and the FILs. My mom liked it, but FI's parents think it sounds like they're an after thought. They said its the joining of two families so they were thinking something more along the lines of Mr and Mrs. X and Mr and Mrs Z invite you to the wedding of X and Y. I really like it better the other way because its traditional and classic. And in my research the wording is usually based on whose paying. His parents are helping out but my parents are paying for the majority.
My mom agrees with my opinion but doesnt think its worth the fight. I know that people hardly even read the invite except to see the date and place and no one will remember what it says, but for some reason I still dont want to change it.
Am I being ridiculous? Is this worth an awkward convo with the FILs and possible hurt feelings or should I just suck it up?