2nd Wedding

serenity5689

Seriously, this is getting old. Move on 1covenjack. If you dont want to help me out then move onto someone else because now it's becoming a childish game. 

RussoWill

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[QUOTE]<a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wedding_vow_renewal_ceremony" rel="nofollow">http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wedding_vow_renewal_ceremony</a>
Posted by serenity5689[/QUOTE]


I usually don't comment in situations like this, but I have to point something out.  This wikipedia article is referring to a wedding vow   *space* renewal  aka reneving your wedding vows.    You are making up something called a vow renewal wedding.  You are renewing your wedding vows.  If you need help with the wording, ask someone in your family because no one else knows what a "vow renewal wedding" is. 

serenity5689

Can we drop the use "WEDDING" word issue? 

It's a renewal no matter how anyone says it. It's the same. Hubby and I will have a small short ceremony to renew our vows, do whatever else then we will eat and dance and cook and laugh afterwards. Simply put. 

Now, the second time, I came up with this....

Through rugged hard mountains,

And smooth shiny meadow;

Through the darkness of night,

And through the brightness of day,

The cowboy and cowgirl still ride side by side.

For now is the time to gather with them,

Over a new mountain they wish to cross.

Please come and join 

Mr. --------

And

Mrs. ---------

Along with their children

blank, blank, blank, blank, and blank

Date

At time

Location 

To pledge new vows to each other

as partners and as family.

Vows renewed, promises renewed, but 

the journey everlasting,

 

 

 

Proof it please and give me some inputs on it?

OBX2011

In Response to Re: 2nd Wedding:
[QUOTE]Can we drop the use "WEDDING" word issue?  It's a renewal no matter how anyone says it. It's the same. Hubby and I will have a small short ceremony to renew our vows, do whatever else then we will eat and dance and cook and laugh afterwards. Simply put.  Now, the second time, I came up with this.... Through rugged hard mountains, And smooth shiny meadow; Through the darkness of night, And through the brightness of day, The cowboy and cowgirl still ride side by side. For now is the time to gather with them, Over a new mountain they wish to cross. Please come and join  Mr. -------- And Mrs. --------- Along with their children blank, blank, blank, blank, and blank Date At time Location  To pledge new vows to each other as partners and as family. Vows renewed, promises renewed, but  the journey everlasting,       Proof it please and give me some inputs on it?
Posted by serenity5689[/QUOTE]

Only if you do....you keep calling it a wedding in your other posts. 

No, it's not the same.  You can only renew something that you previously had secured in the first place.  For example, you can renew your car insurance b/c you previously purchased the policy.  You renew your vows AFTER your wedding, which you already had.  Therefore, you are having a vow renewal ceremony, NOT a wedding.

serenity5689

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[QUOTE] Only if you do....you keep calling it a wedding in your other posts.  No, it's not the same.  You can only renew something that you previously had secured in the first place.  For example, you can renew your car insurance b/c you previously purchased the policy.  You renew your vows AFTER your wedding, which you already had.  Therefore, you are having a vow renewal ceremony, NOT a wedding.
Posted by OBX2011[/QUOTE]<div>
</div><div>Your ideas, your culture, your family traditions are your own, mine are mine. U can tell me your way but you cannot force your way on me, so give it up. I can talk the way I want to talk, I can type the way I want to type, I can write a post the way I want to write a post, just the same as all of you. I don't try to FORCE you to be like me so STOP trying to FORCE me to be like you. </div><div>
</div><div>IN ASL (American Sign Language) it is signed in english translation formed "VOW RENEWAL WEDDING" </div><div>Even in English, my family are not Deaf traditional and they even call it, clearly to my face with big mouths "VOW RENEWAL WEDDING" </div><div>That is our choice, it is not for you to like or not so therefore, you cannot tell me that I cannot say that. It's the same THING Vow Renewal Ceremony or PARTY in your way of saying the same as us saying VOW RENEWAL WEDDING. </div><div>AGAIN, I dont give a heck how you say it, this is the way i say it. Am I critizing you for being different? No Im not, Im saying that's your way, okay but this is mine. So therefore dont bash me for doing what I know.</div><div>Your way is NOT the HIGH WAY so therefore MOVE ON. </div><div>This is the last post Im going to post on this Subject (Use of the word wedding and what is etiquette for a wedding whatever). NO matter how much you keep bashing me about it, it's my way, TOO BAD.</div><div>And btw, I have ever heard of a Etiquette until I have come to this site and everything you guys are saying on what is WRONG for a Vow Renewal is TOTALLY the opposite on what I have seen, heard, and grown with. Oh well... Sad for me? Maybe but Im not bothered so that's all that matters. Yea I hear you say it's not a good idea or your wrong but know what, <strong><font color="#ff0000">IM NOT YOU, WILL NEVER BE YOU, SO THEREFORE... *SHRUGGING* SUCKS FOR YOU.</font></strong></div><div>The world is not owned by you and not by me so therefore none of us have a right to control how things are said and done. </div><div>
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jazzygray

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[QUOTE]I wish the whole subject will drop and just get on the actual topic. Here is what I came up with,  What do you think... Through rugged hard mountains, And smooth shiny meadow; Through the darkness of night, And through the brightness of day, The cowboy and cowgirl still ride side by side. For now is the time to gather with them, Over a new mountain they wish to cross. Please come and join  Mr. -------- And Mrs. --------- Along with their children blank, blank, blank, blank, and blank Date At time Location  To pledge new vows to each other as partners and as family. Vows renewed, promises renewed, but  the journey everlasting,  
Posted by serenity5689[/QUOTE]

Cute

serenity5689

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: 2nd Wedding : Cute
Posted by jazzygray[/QUOTE]<div>
</div><div>Thank you, Jazzy. I guess I would go for that.

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OBX2011

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: 2nd Wedding : Your ideas, your culture, your family traditions are your own, mine are mine. U can tell me your way but you cannot force your way on me, so give it up. I can talk the way I want to talk, I can type the way I want to type, I can write a post the way I want to write a post, just the same as all of you. I don't try to FORCE you to be like me so STOP trying to FORCE me to be like you.  IN ASL (American Sign Language) it is signed in english translation formed "VOW RENEWAL WEDDING"  Even in English, my family are not Deaf traditional and they even call it, clearly to my face with big mouths "VOW RENEWAL WEDDING"  That is our choice, it is not for you to like or not so therefore, you cannot tell me that I cannot say that. It's the same THING Vow Renewal Ceremony or PARTY in your way of saying the same as us saying VOW RENEWAL WEDDING.  AGAIN, I dont give a heck how you say it, this is the way i say it. Am I critizing you for being different? No Im not, Im saying that's your way, okay but this is mine. So therefore dont bash me for doing what I know. Your way is NOT the HIGH WAY so therefore MOVE ON.  This is the last post Im going to post on this Subject (Use of the word wedding and what is etiquette for a wedding whatever). NO matter how much you keep bashing me about it, it's my way, TOO BAD. And btw, I have ever heard of a Etiquette until I have come to this site and everything you guys are saying on what is WRONG for a Vow Renewal is TOTALLY the opposite on what I have seen, heard, and grown with. Oh well... Sad for me? Maybe but Im not bothered so that's all that matters. Yea I hear you say it's not a good idea or your wrong but know what, IM NOT YOU, WILL NEVER BE YOU, SO THEREFORE... *SHRUGGING* SUCKS FOR YOU. The world is not owned by you and not by me so therefore none of us have a right to control how things are said and done.
Posted by serenity5689[/QUOTE]

Are you even comprehending what I'm saying here?  Apparently not.

YOU were clearly the one who wanted to drop the word "wedding" and I said "only if you do"  What part of that is so hard to understand?  You clearly stated that you used the wrong choice of words yet when someone calls you out on it, you back-track and start acting like a 5 year old throwing a temper tantrum.  It's like it's ok if youuuuuuu do it, but not if anyone calls you out for it.

These are not my beliefs, these are called facts my dear.  A <em>wedding</em> and a <em>vow renewal</em> are TWO VERY DIFFERENT THINGS!!!

You can be as different as you want to be but either way, calling it a wedding when it's not is wrong and people are going to respond.  YOU posted on a public forum therefore anyone can respond as how they see fit.  BTW, I am a Mod so I am very aware of what is and what is not allowed on these sties.

banana468

That your friends and family are calling the event a 'vow renewal wedding' does not mean that such a thing exists.   I feel like I'm in the Princess Bride: "You keep on usinig that word.  I do not think it means what you think it means."

Beyond that, your children don't belong on the invitation.  You aren't renewing your vows with them as you never took any in the first place.  They can be a part of the ceremony but they aren't renewing any marriage vows.