Is it incorrect or rude to address an invitation to a married couple, in which you know the wife did not change her name, to Mr. and Mrs. Husband's last name? Or, if is to be addressed with their separate names, whose name goes first?
Also, we just received our first gift in the mail. It's from our registry and sent by friend's of my fiance. They have expressed excitement to attend the wedding, so we know they are coming... Do I wait until after the wedding to send a thank you card for the gift they sent?
And, since this is a couple that is friend's with my fiance (we went to their wedding last July, but I never actually met the bride because she was so busy that we never got a chance to talk with her... only spent a few minutes with the groom, my fiance's friend, during the reception). Anyway, my last question is do I invite the wife to my shower? She's already sent a gift... and I don't actually know her... I'm just not sure what is right in this case. Please advise.
Thanks!