Is this correct?

seltonandashlee

One of my teachers is invited to the wedding. I know her, but not her husband, but obviously her husband is invited. Can I address it as "Mr. and Mrs. Cyndi Walker?"

banana468

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[QUOTE]One of my teachers is invited to the wedding. I know her, but not her husband, but obviously her husband is invited. Can I address it as "Mr. and Mrs. Cyndi Walker?"
Posted by seltonandashlee[/QUOTE]

Is her husband's name Cyndi?

It can be Cyndi and Robert Walker, Mr. and Mrs. Robert Walker or Cyndi Walker and Robert Walker.

But Mr. and Mrs. Cyndi Walker is not correct.

seltonandashlee

I have no idea what her husband's name his. I know he goes by Ewert, but she goes by Walker-Ewert...so what would I do? Can I address it to just her?

tenofcups4me

Email her (or call her or stop by) and tell her you're getting ready to send invitations and just wanted to confirm her and her husband's full names. Could she please provide the best way to address them?

No matter what approach you take, you'll need his first and last name, and to confirm that she uses the hyphenated version socially.

GeauxTigers17

If she goes by a different name (and she's hyphenated hers, it appears from your post) then it's this:

Ms. Cyndi Walker-Ewert and Mr. Robert Ewert

You can put it on two lines if you need to; the "and" denotes that they are married. You shouldn't use "Mr. and Mrs." unless they truly have the same last name. 

hz80408

I agree with pp's wording and the fact that you're going to have to ask her his name

seltonandashlee

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[QUOTE]If she goes by a different name (and she's hyphenated hers, it appears from your post) then it's this: Ms. Cyndi Walker-Ewert and Mr. Robert Ewert You can put it on two lines if you need to; the "and" denotes that they are married. You shouldn't use "Mr. and Mrs." unless they truly have the same last name. 
Posted by GeauxTigers17[/QUOTE]
<p> </p><p>Ah, thank you!</p><p> </p><p>Also, how freaky is it that his name is actually Robert? Seriously.</p>

vicki0508

If all of those are real names, you should edit them out and use something more generic.