My mother is paying for the bulk of our wedding, thus my understanding is that she should be listed as the host on the invitations. However, my father passed away, so "The Parents of..." of "Mr. and Mrs..." doesn't really make sense for us. Moreover, both of my fiancé's parents have passed away, so "The parents of..." doesn't work for us either. I was thinking just my mom "Mrs....requests the honor of your presence at the marriage of her daughter..." but I didn't know if that is appropriate.
I really want to give my mom the credit she is due, as she's been amazing helping us plan our wedding, but I'm concerned about hurting someone's feelings. Any thoughts?