Getting Guest List from Groom!

daniellemarie13

I have designed and printed our save the dates and they are ready to be sent out HOWEVER, my fiance is now making changes to his side of the guest list, and he hasn't given me ANY addresses (my side of the list/addresses was ready months ago). How can I get him to finalize his side of the list, and contact people for addresses?

apple_green

Give him a deadline. Say "By next week, I need the addresses for all of your family or our save the dates are going to be late. Thanks honey!"

squirrly

Talk to him about it.  This is his wedding too - why does he not understand the urgency?  Instead of getting frustrated and STILL not getting a guest list, ask him WHY he hasn't given it to you.  Get to the root cause, come to an understanding, and move forward.