To start off, I don't have a B List. However a lot of my family is from out of town. So I was wondering if I just send STD's to those who are out of town, or to everyone? And if this is how I was going to announce the engagement, would that change your answer? If I send them to just out of town guests, then the in-town guest found out that I sent out STD's, would they feel B-listed?