We're doing an adults only wedding but we have lots of kids in our family. I want to be up front with people and let them know that it's adults only when I send the STD cards. I figure waiting til a 6wks before the wedding (or whenever I mail the invitations) may not be enough time for some people to plan accordingly.
Is it tacky to add in something that says "Formal invitation to follow for an adult only affair"?