addressing a guest who is a judge

eeetea

my friend is a judge, she is married, she goes by her own name - different name than her husband.  how more complicated can you get?! ;-)

how do I address inner and outer envelope???? 

do I need to go over the top in terms of formality?  she is my friend/my peer, not friend of our parents - does that matter?

psichick

The Honorable Jane Jones
Mr. John Smith

inner envelope is Judge Jones and Mr. Smith

tenofcups4me

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[QUOTE]The Honorable Jane Jones
Mr. John Smith
 
inner envelope is Judge Jones and Mr. Smith
Posted by psichick[/QUOTE]

Yes, except add an "and" to the first one since they're married, so it's:
The Honorable Jane Jones and
Mr. John Smith

eeetea

really?.... "The Honorable"  not just "Hon." ?

kristinanddan

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[QUOTE]really?.... "The Honorable"  not just "Hon." ?
Posted by eeetea[/QUOTE]

No, no abbreviations.

detailsBYoksanaDOTcom

for the outer envelope it is also appropriate
Ms. Cathy Lastname
and Mr. Troy Smith