Alright ladies... I need some advice....
So I'm from a small town where everyone knows every and both my fiance's family and my family have known each other since before I was even thought of. Here is the sticky situation.... A long time ago, when my mother was pregnant with me, my father cheated with my now fiance's aunt. I recently became aware of this through a sibling and I don't want her at our wedding because my parents are still together and it will tear my mom apart. And frankly, since I found this out I strongly dislike her. My fiance is ok with this, however, he does not want to start a lot of problems/drama (obviously) over the situation with his family.
My question is do I send her an invitation and quietly acknowledge to her that I am aware of what happened so she best find an "excuse" not to show up (that way no one has to know the real reason) or just plain not invite her and if the subject comes up explain to everyone what happened?
I don't want my mom upset because she is my best friend.... I need advice please!!!
Thanks in advance to everyone!