I sent out my save the dates and included my wedding website. The website gives you the option to RSVP. I had thought about removing this until the actual formal invites go out but I figured it may give me a glimpse into how many regrets we get. Here is the question - if someone RSVPs "no" on the website, do I still send them a formal invite? I feel like that is pointless and maybe kinda like I'm pestering them but I don't want to risk being rude either.