Wedding Invitations & Paper

Save the Dates or Not?

I just got engaged last week and we picked a date that is about 6 months away. Does it even make sense to send out Save the Dates? Or should we just send our invitations a little early?

Re: Save the Dates or Not?

  • Up to you.  You could send them since invites usually wouldn't go out until six to eight weeks before.  Or you could just spread the word to anyone who might be coming in from out of town so they could start making travel arrangements.
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  • Do you have a lot of out of town guests that would need to make travel arrangements? If so, maybe send out save the dates just to those out of town people or more distant relatives/friends that don't know the event details yet.

    If you do STD's send your invites out at 6-8 weeks (I prefer 8 weeks).

    Otherwise, send your invites out at around 10 weeks and you'd be fine.
  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_invites-paper_save-the-dates-or-not?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:cd062f89-8272-496a-b0ab-225e1f87acecDiscussion:dd547345-63bc-4a23-a9b2-fc00dfd5f52cPost:e570a55f-b416-4392-95fd-911b86e5556b">Re: Save the Dates or Not?</a>:
    [QUOTE]Save the dates are sent 6-9 months before the wedding, so if you can get them ordered and mailed within that time frame, go ahead. If not, its really not a big deal since they aren't necessary. <strong>Invitations shouldn't be mailed any earlier than 8 weeks before the wedding.</strong>
    Posted by lovethebeach16[/QUOTE]<div>
    </div><div>Not true. 8 weeks is a guideline, not a rule.

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  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_invites-paper_save-the-dates-or-not?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:cd062f89-8272-496a-b0ab-225e1f87acecDiscussion:dd547345-63bc-4a23-a9b2-fc00dfd5f52cPost:2b5020af-0576-4991-9872-adef149524fa">Re: Save the Dates or Not?</a>:
    [QUOTE]Up to you.  You could send them since invites usually wouldn't go out until six to eight weeks before.  Or you could just spread the word to anyone who might be coming in from out of town so they could start making travel arrangements.
    Posted by meganb1977[/QUOTE]
    This exactly.  If you have a lot of OOT guests, it may be a good idea to send them out.  If not, I wouldnt worry about it unless you want to.
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  • Def send it out! Most of ppl out there are doing this ;-)

    It can tell your guests in advance, so they can arrange their time to your wedding.

    Congrats!
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  • I didn't do save the dates. Most everyone we know already knows since we live in such a close knit community. The only family traveling is my mom's side and it's only immediately family so they all know already. I just found for me it was a waste of money to send them.
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  • I got engaged a month ago and I'm getting ready to send out Save the Dates for our August 2012 wedding. Like others are saying they aren't required, but I wanted to let people know of the date in case they wanted to plan their vacations accordingly since August is a big vacation month. I had someone on Etsy design mine and I LOVE them, and they were only $.50 each.
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