HELP!!!! Inviting the right people!?

lconley1120

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SlothGoals

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_invites-paper_help-inviting-the-right-people?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:cd062f89-8272-496a-b0ab-225e1f87acecDiscussion:e27f3cdc-9fc3-4d36-9ed9-02d087a9c513Post:5184f48c-957d-4296-9520-865eaf515a36">HELP!!!! Inviting the right people!?</a>:
[QUOTE]Hey ladies, I have a huge delimma...this  may get a little confusing, so just try to stay with me! Here it goes... My fiancee's ex girlfriend from awhile ago (at least 5 yrs) is now married to one of my boyfriend's best high school friends. Scott (the highschool friend) and my fiancee are still extremely close. (I know, weird) My fiancee and I do not have any contact with her.  Well, do we invite them to our wedding?!?! I want to get invitations out in the next few days, so I'm stuck! 
Posted by lconley1120[/QUOTE]<div>
</div><div>I'm a little confused. You have a FI and a boyfriend? Why do you want to send out invitations if your wedding is in December 2014?</div><div>
</div><div>Aside from that, if you want to invite Scott you have to invite his wife too. This is your FI/Boyfriend's call.

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AddieCake

Yeah, I'm confused, too. Your wedding is nearly 2 years away. Why would you be sending invitations out this week? 

libby2483

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_invites-paper_help-inviting-the-right-people?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:cd062f89-8272-496a-b0ab-225e1f87acecDiscussion:e27f3cdc-9fc3-4d36-9ed9-02d087a9c513Post:5184f48c-957d-4296-9520-865eaf515a36">HELP!!!! Inviting the right people!?</a>:
[QUOTE]Hey ladies, I have a huge delimma...this  may get a little confusing, so just try to stay with me! Here it goes... My fiancee's ex girlfriend from awhile ago (at least 5 yrs) is now married to one of my boyfriend's best high school friends. Scott (the highschool friend) and my fiancee are still extremely close. (I know, weird) My fiancee and I do not have any contact with her.  Well, do we invite them to our wedding?!?! I want to get invitations out in the next few days, so I'm stuck! 
Posted by lconley1120[/QUOTE]

<div>Okay, I"m assuming you don't have a fiance and a boyfriend, so I'm thinking that Scott is your fiance's friend.  It is your fiance's call if he wants to invite Scott or not, but if he is invited, his wife absolutely must be invited with him, regardless of whether she is your fiance's ex-girlfriend.</div><div>
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libby2483

Also, what's with the delete after people took the time to respond to your post and give you advice?

SlothGoals

Ditto libby. You got solid advice about your situation and then you DD? That's just bad form.