During the ceremony, bridesmaids and groomsmen are suppose to stand in order based on height, with the exception of the honor attendants, right? Shortest closest to the bride and groom. I read that you are also suppose to list them on the program in the order that they walk down the aisle and stand, so you can tell who is who. Bridesmaids are picking their own shoes, so do I need to know all of their heights in their new shoes before ordering programs, or do people do something else?