I have an old friend I grew up with. She did not make the cut for our small wedding guestlist. I didnt mention the wedding to her, so I didnt get her hopes up for an invite that never came, but she heard about it through a cousin of mine. She automatically assumed she was invited and it starting to make plans to travel for the wedding. Problem is we are at the max on our guest list for what the room will allow. Do I have to invite her now, because she has booked travel to come to the wedding already? I dont want to hurt her feelings or lose her friendship, but we really havent been close in a few years, we are already over room capacity and if we do have room, there are closer friends I would prefer to invite instead.
HELP!
Erica