so I posted a while back about my fiance not telling his groomsmen they were in the wedding yet, and that there were some issues because one of the groomsmen is one of my bridesmaid's ex. Well, he finally told that one (he still hasn't told two of them!) but now my issue is his girlfriend. About a month ago she spazzed out and thought all of us in the circle of friends were not inviting her and her boyfriend (groomsman) to social gatherings because my friend (his ex) would be there. She said we were choosing her over him and she freaked out, put some nasty comments up on facebook then deleted everyone in the group from facebook. I know, its childish to care about that, but its the principle. Well, everyone had a talk with the groomsman and its been cleared up and she has calmed down. Problem is, my friend knows about all this and doesn't particularly like this girl now. All of the groomsmen's wives will be invited to my bridal shower and bachelorette party, and i don't want to be hateful and not invite her, but i really don't want awkwardness at these events. Should i invite her? My friend will be supportive either way but it will be really awkward.
