Another rant

melb2013

Apparently I'M being chilish for blowing this whole thing out of proportion... I got a whole email that told me that I was being childish and that there is nothing wrong with her being angry with her other bridesmaids for not pulling their weight or designing and sending her own shower invites.  Apparently I'M the crazy one and she's completely sane!  *breathe*  

I've been ignoring her all day and apparently ignoring her and not settling my problem with her FI myself means that I'm childish.  I honestly didn't realize I was having problems with her FI- I really just thought I was having problems with her...

Isn't the definition of insanity when you think you're normal and everybody else thinks you're crazy?  That means she's crazy right?  Lord I'm so glad she still doesn't know what TK is so I can talk about it here! LOL

hisbabygirl76

Mel she is certifiably NUTS. There is nothing else to say about that. I dont think you are being childish. You are taking the higher road and removing yourself from the craziness so they can weed through the mess that they created.

SSaltzman87

This is craziness you can't make up. I wouldn't respond because that's exactly what she wants and there's no possible way to reason with her or hope that she'll 'come around'.

melb2013

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_may-2013-weddings_another-rant?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:ea657a87-d1dc-4588-999f-31c9deeef720Discussion:6af3ed8a-45de-4f75-8f64-d1beffc9a86ePost:bc4b59df-e34d-4e7e-8d3f-2c07e68d26f3">Re: Another rant</a>:
[QUOTE]<strong>This is craziness you can't make up. I wouldn't respond because that's exactly what she wants and there's no possible way to reason with her or hope that she'll 'come around'.</strong>
Posted by SSaltzman87[/QUOTE]

<div>True that</div>

FLGatorGal88

I agree with Steph... She is INSANE!!!

sbc2013

Has your FI said something at this point? I think you said he was going to call her and ask her not to send out the hateful bridesmaids email. What does he think of all of this?

melb2013

He did text her- she said she won't send the email... thank god...

He told me that she's never going to apologize- she never admits she is wrong and he always expected her to become a bridezilla because she's generally spoiled.  That's all well in fine- but I have to deal with the insanity through the wedding.  I knew she was a little cray cray before she got engaged, but I had no idea she was this rude and mean.  FI won't let me drop out of the wedding and is very upset that I may not go to her shower.

And then she wants to get pregnant right away... from bridezilla to preggozilla... Just like NOBODY has EVER had a wedding before, NOBODY will EVER have had a baby before!

hisbabygirl76

I feel bad for that baby. She sounds like someone who would want to have a baby just for "having" one.

sbc2013

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_may-2013-weddings_another-rant?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:ea657a87-d1dc-4588-999f-31c9deeef720Discussion:6af3ed8a-45de-4f75-8f64-d1beffc9a86ePost:02cb88e1-9705-4954-a6c8-71e7ae700343">Re: Another rant</a>:
[QUOTE]He did text her- she said she won't send the email... thank god... He told me that she's never going to apologize- she never admits she is wrong and he always expected her to become a bridezilla because she's generally spoiled.  That's all well in fine- but I have to deal with the insanity through the wedding.  I knew she was a little cray cray before she got engaged, but I had no idea she was this rude and mean.  FI won't let me drop out of the wedding and is very upset that I may not go to her shower. And then she wants to get pregnant right away... <strong>from bridezilla to preggozilla... Just like NOBODY has EVER had a wedding before, NOBODY will EVER have had a baby before!</strong>
Posted by melb2013[/QUOTE]

<div>I would try and avoid her at all costs after the wedding, so that she gets the hint that you don't feel as warmly about your "friendship" as she does. Because honestly, she is going to be so much more of a nightmare when she has all of the discomforts that come with a baby. Yikes. </div>