Fi is killing me with people...

Danny&Mel2003

Last night I told him I only need 1 cousins addy an he says what about my Tia .... Umm who? You never mentioned her before. You checked the list an so did mil an now you remember her smh I wanted to pinch him through the phone. What's one person right? Smh can I just win the lottery already!

turtleslove

FI keeps doing that too, it must be a guy thing. I finally had it out with him and he "gets" it now. I added it up how much each guest costs us (chair rental, food, favor, budget etc) and he now understands how much each additional guest costs us..

Annas2013

I'm glad we don't have that problem with my FI.  Sometimes my mom does that, but at this point, she's stopped.  We're at max capacity with the guest list plus we just had to add more onto our cake order in order to have enough, so the price of that kind of made her back off.  

TogetherPerfect

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_may-2013-weddings_fi-is-killing-me-with-people?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:ea657a87-d1dc-4588-999f-31c9deeef720Discussion:9499484f-22a8-449c-8058-7b0a67674086Post:6cacb9b3-17f3-4758-aec7-0955701a58ee">Re: Fi is killing me with people...</a>:
[QUOTE]I'm glad we don't have that problem with my FI.  Sometimes my mom does that, but at this point, she's stopped.  We're at max capacity with the guest list plus we just had to add more onto our cake order in order to have enough, so the price of that kind of made her back off.  
Posted by Annas2013[/QUOTE]
Same here, but FMIL is worse. I think she's finaly done... lol She's paying for the reception so we can't really say no. Oh well. 

Krikin22

I'm so glad we're over this hump! It was my family that kept adding people though, not FI. I think my side is literally double his.

FLGatorGal88

Thank goodness we are past this too FI kept adding people the last 10 people he added I told him NO MORE!!!!!

SSaltzman87

FI and his family have gone back and forth a couple times about adding people, but that's about it.

melb2013

FMIL has tried to do this several times... and she's not paying.  We gave in on a few people and otherwise said no.  She wanted us to have the same size wedding as FSIL is having- she invited about 220 and we invited 160.

Danny&Mel2003

Eessh these guys man they just don't get it. We're over budget then again this is assuming everybody comes, can we swing it yes, but wow!!! That's it no more people this is list done!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!