I went out last night for a friends going away party .... Several people asked me about the wedding plans etc since we're not inviting everyone I've been trying to not bring it up. Well 2 friends were like "am I invited you have to invite me" ... I was kind of shocked I felt that was rude I would never say that to someone who was planning a wedding and I've had several friends get married some I've been invite and others not. I looked at them and all I said was well were working on the guest list and right now were focusing on family. These two people are not invited I didn't want to just say oh hey yeah No your invited but at the same time I felt pressured. Our guest is complete we have 6 more people than I wanted to begin with assuming everyone says yes! People will be let down and I'm guessing I will loose friendships but I can't just add people bc I feel bad. This is extremely expensive on top of the per person there is additional taxes we pay which is insane 22percent plus our state tax. I wish I had the money invite all my friends but I don't. I guess this was more a vent ..... Std are going out next month any ideas how I should be letting people down in as classy was as possible?