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Gotta Love Fights with FI Over Wedding Planning

Well we had another wedding planning fight today over a limo. FI doesn't think we need one but his parents think we do too. You know your in love when you are fighting and just get soo mad that you bust out laughing and realize wow this is dumb. Looks like I am getting the limo bus :) I am starting to compare prices and for 18 person limo bus for 4 hours everyone wants around 1000. Seems so expernsive for 4 hours, but I think it will be easy to transport our wedding party. Anyone else have a fight or two over planning?
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    We've never had an actual fight.  We've had arguments that normally started because my mom refused to cooperate over some random detail, and it stressed us both out.  Not anymore though.
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    We have had some arguements and the last one we didnt speak for almost a week. I was furious. It has now left us with no wedding date, no set plans and everything up in the air. I dont even dicuss wedding stuff with him anymore. I knew the wedding planning would cause stress and arguements which is why I didnt want a big wedding. I tried telling him weddings and funerals they bring out the worst in people :)
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    Lol... I love the wedding fights... I wouldn't call it a fight more like a disagreement... We had a few when it come to the budget breakdown... He just couldn't believe flowers could add up like they did...
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    we havent yet... He has opposed some of my ideas but he usually thinks about it and understands what i am saying  and agrees with me. I try to give in to what he wants when I can ;)

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    No fights here at all... =) we are both on the same page with the wedding and haveing fun planning it!
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    At least your FI has an opinion! Mine doesn't want to hear anything about the wedding except cost lol
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    No fights about wedding planning, just me flipping out about his family's behavior concerning the wedding.  He usually listens to me flipping out and then finds a way to fix it.

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    Not fights for us. FI is extremly into planning the wedding which makes me really happy. We've disagreed over a few things but nothing major. Limos were one of them, FI really wanted them and I didn't. I always pictured myself showing up to my wedding on the back of my dad's Harley but considering everything I'll be wearing that day, it's not possible. I even told him I'd show up in a taxi lol but he won that "fight" and we now have limos.
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    No fights for us. We're both pretty much on the same page about everything.



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    Yeah, I can happily say there are no fights here. First person I've ever been with that I don't fight with - about anything.
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    We haven't fought about wedding stuff. We rarely fight about anything. We've agreed on everything so far.
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_may-2013-weddings_gotta-love-fights-with-fi-over-wedding-planning?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding Club BoardsForum:ea657a87-d1dc-4588-999f-31c9deeef720Discussion:b5044f7f-6f53-433a-8c5b-5d8d8b140b95Post:3776d021-498d-4cd8-abaf-c63de7c0e5dc">Re: Gotta Love Fights with FI Over Wedding Planning</a>:
    [QUOTE]At least your FI has an opinion! Mine doesn't want to hear anything about the wedding except cost lol
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    hahaa yes FI doesnt really have an opinion either, I always ask him and he doesn't seem to care only with the money issue that is why we had a little disagreement with the limo. Gahhh I love him and his accountant ways
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    edited June 2012

    In the beginning,  we had different views on how Big/Small we wanted it to be, we had many disussions about the Guest list and Budget, However now that we have overcome the beginning hurdles. Planning is underway, and now were both on the same page.

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    No fights for us either. He just gives his input and keeps telling me I can not start a registry until we find a place to get married.
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