Hi Ladies - I'm in my friend's wedding this weekend and I'm really struggling with how to do my hair. The bride said just to do whatever we want, which normally would be fine...but I feel stuck. I don't want to spend a bunch of money to get my hair done and get to the wedding and see my friend with something quite plain; I'll feel like I'm outshining her. But at the same time, I don't want to just leave it down and natural and feel underdone. What would you ladies do? I've asked the bride and she's still not sure how she's doing her hair, so I can't even try to compare.