Hello,
I am having such a hard time with hairstyles. I love the romantic/messy/half-up-half-down kind of look, but I recently cut my hair and got some bangs. My hair is at arm pit length. Here's a recent pic of the front:

I'm pretty tiny and my dress is huge:
http://www.morilee.com/bridals/bridal/1601 so it's easy to have too much going on. I've decided to skip a veil and would like to wear some sort of accessory. I really don't like that updo the model is wearing. I am drawn to softer looks. I love vintage.
As soon as I bought the dress, I made a hair comb:

But now I'm just confused. I am not sure if I should grow the bangs out (Wedding is Oct. 1st) or if I should keep the bangs and wear a headband and keep my hair down... or maybe do something else completely.
Advice?