Ok...I think I am officially NUTS!

classykat22

So, the wedding is behind us (was truly wonderful but so glad it's over); work isn't as crazy busy as it has been in months past; hubby (still makes me smile to type that) is gearing up for an extended work assignment about 2 hours from home; son is working and hanging out with his friends all the time...so, I should be excited to have some peace and quiet, right?  Well, today I remembered that I need to plan DH 40th birthday, which is late July, AND I am already looking at all the things I need to have in order for our HM in September (going to Greece).  Instead of relaxing and taking full advantage of the non-hectic life I have right this minute, I am already kicking things into full speed planning again.  Please please please tell me what the h*ll is wrong with me????  HAHA

Is anyone else finding that they cant let themselves just relax now that it's all over?? 

 

I know I don't want to be back to what this past 1.5 years has been, but I have also never been one to sit idle for too long.  DH tries so hard to help me be more like him (he can sit and play XBox all day and never once feel a twinge of guilt) but, I guess it's just not in my nature to be like that.  

arisia

Stress is a habit now. You need to train yourself for a new habit. For example, set a time on your calendar everyday where you do something relaxing, like reading a book. It will train your brain that it is okay to relax.

sfylstra

I totally feel you, I came home after our wedding week and went out to Home Depot THE NEXT DAY to by paint and redo my dining room and living room! We are also planning to take a later honeymoon, so I'm hoping in between my home improvements and that, I will find some time to sit and relax... but theres always something to do! 

amandad18

Ha, I'm in the same boat! After our 22 hour drive to Alabama, hectic wedding week, and then another 22 hour drive back to home, the next day I was out returning gifts and picking up things no one got off the registry and tearing through the house rearranging & redecorating like my life depended on it

mandi921vh

It took me about a week to catch up on sleep after our wedding! I feel fine now. It's so nice not to have to worry about wedding things anymore. 

vineyard12

I know how you feel. A week after the wedding and now we are deciding on paint colors for outside and inside of the house, plus flooring. In a few weeks we go on our HM to Colorado and then in July I am thinking of taking a class that will take my entire month away (4 days of class for the month and they are like 4 hours long!). I don't see much relaxing in my future.