So we are getting married at a chapel. They do not have regular staff because they only do weddings for alumni and it's a small group. The coordinator there whom I've known for years realized in March that she would be out of town. I've been waiting to learn the replacement till this week. Now I happen to have known her in school. But it turns out the rehearsal time is inconvienient for the new planner. Um I'm sorry but that its what the priest had available 6 months ago. No I can not make it earlier or I won't have a priest since I know he has another appointment. I can't make it later because the ring bearers and flower girl need to get to bed by 7pm. And I'm not appreciating the guilt trips or the fact that I can't meet with her before the rehearsal now because of the differing work schedules. Just frustrated at the guilt trip when I said no... She has to take off early from work, it will be harder for her, she might be late. Give me the dang keys and I'll be fine. Sigh... Not needed today.