So FI starts by telling me how his God-mother is really sick to the point where her joints hurts when she moves so she wont be able to make it to the wedding. (He tried to soften me up first before the blow) Then he goes on to say, "I might've made a booboo..." His God-mother had asked if her friend M can go in her place and he said YES! Whaaaat??? He then goes on to say "he doesn't even like her and she might not come anyways because she'll want to bring her husband and son...." WTF? How does he know his God-mother will say the invite is just for 1? We over invited expecting some declines, that doesn't mean you fill it with random ppl who YOU don't even know... UGH! He says he couldn't say no to his God-mother... Really baby, really?