bridezilla :(

caitlinc09

Really sad about it. I've been stressing out about a lot of silly things but I didn't think I was taking it out on anyone. I haven't been mean or yelling at anyone. 

Has anyone else been called a bridezilla undeservingly? At least I hope it was.

amandad18

My mom constantly calls me a bridezilla to everyone behind my back, and does NOTHING to help me and plays it off by saying that I *want* to do it all by myself.

She's a peach.

comeongetdown

my mom will sometimes tell me that if i do x, y or z i'll be a bridezilla, because i usually vent to her first before doing anything or reacting to anyone.

but one time she said that i was probably so angry about something because i was on my period... i was like, wth?!  are you even a woman?!  even FI knows better than to assume my emotions/reactions are based on pms  haha

hopefully it passes for you and you can find your peace the closer you get to the wedding

MrsLiggett7

No, but sometimes I feel like busting out the Bridezilla and making everyone deal with it. I'm tired of being nice and getting walked all over.

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[QUOTE]No, but sometimes I feel like busting out the Bridezilla and making everyone deal with it. I'm tired of being nice and getting walked all over.
Posted by MrsLiggett7[/QUOTE]



This!

S0095042

yep. everytime I have to make a decision concerning guests of our WP i'm treated like I'm a total bridezilla. I think that if you're not a complete door mat for your wedding -- you can't win with everyone.

IllusionsDepths

I have been called that as well. A few months ago I had trouble with a BM, one of my closest friends, and it got ugly. She called me a Bridezilla and a bitch, but couldn't back it up with concrete instances where i had acted as such. I haven't heard it since.

nicole1087

My aunt constantly does. But she's does it jokingly. Funny thou at my bachlorette party they had auditions for the show the strip club we went to and she didnt try and make me auditon. Thank god!

vineyard12

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[QUOTE]No, but sometimes I feel like busting out the Bridezilla and making everyone deal with it. I'm tired of being nice and getting walked all over.
Posted by MrsLiggett7[/QUOTE]

This! I feel like I am too nice and I am tired of it.

Melissa51212

I told my fi to tell his guys that I will be bridezilla if they didn't get measured for their tuxes..lthankfully I didn't need to resort to that...the only time was when I was freaking about about not knowing about my shower...the anxiety literally drove me off the edge.

sfylstra

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[QUOTE]My mom constantly calls me a bridezilla to everyone behind my back, and does NOTHING to help me and plays it off by saying that I *want* to do it all by myself. She's a peach.
Posted by amandad18[/QUOTE]

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</div><div>This is my mom too! You know what though, I don't mind her calling me a bridezilla, because I've done enough of the work and planning to deserve it! Haha</div>

Killa2979

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[QUOTE]No, but sometimes I feel like busting out the Bridezilla and making everyone deal with it. I'm tired of being nice and getting walked all over.
Posted by MrsLiggett7[/QUOTE]

<div>Yes, me too!</div>

XxKrazy4u

I was called...and i quote...the most ungracious bride....

this was after i flipped when i received an email...yes email from my own cousin who was dropping out of my wedding when i told her i was a bit upset she couldnt at least call me and thought it was really inconsiderate of her to send an email being as i have done so much for her and she dropped out to be in 2 other friends weddings instead...but i am ungracious. i didnt even deserve a phone call i guess.  Needless to say, i havent spoken to her since. ....but i did invite her. however i havent received an RSVP either way....but im the bad one here. oh well.

bpphoto785

My MOH likes to call me a bridezilla and even suggested making it the theme of my shower cake... I think she thinks it's funny but at this point it's just annoying

My Mom also called me a bridezilla when I got pissed at my MOH when she disappeared for two weeks after my shower and never responded to any message asking about my shower gift list.

I hate the word bridezilla. I really think it's thrown around way too much!

lnvane00

Yea my mom and brother called me a bridezilla undeservingly. I just KNOW what I want for MY wedding. That does NOT make us bridezillas!

fluttaby32

you guys are all bridezillas.

















JOKING!!

littleshrink

amandad18 & comeongetdown -- you both have such similar dresses.  Beautiful on both of you.

My mom & sister went as far as to give me permission to go Bridezilla on the bridal boutique who lost/didn't order my sister's dress.  I didn't, I stayed in control, but I think I deserved to. 

I think we could all do a little bridezilla and deserve it!

KissaC18

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[QUOTE]No, but sometimes I feel like busting out the Bridezilla and making everyone deal with it. I'm tired of being nice and getting walked all over.
Posted by MrsLiggett7[/QUOTE]

I love this!! When I read this I thought to myself that is so how I feel!!

amandad18

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[QUOTE]amandad18 & comeongetdown -- you both have such similar dresses.  Beautiful on both of you. My mom & sister went as far as to give me permission to go Bridezilla on the bridal boutique who lost/didn't order my sister's dress.  I didn't, I stayed in control, but I think I deserved to.  I think we could all do a little bridezilla and deserve it!
Posted by littleshrink[/QUOTE]

<div>Thanks! We have the same dress- RivieraBound has it, too :)</div>