So. For the formals, when you do the family picures, who are you having in the pic? I am thinking immediate family only, some of FI's side, then some of mine.
Does anyone have a sibling that is married? If so, are you having their spouse involved in the photos?
The reason I ask is because FI's brother is engaged, and his family is very big on wanting her to be involved and I have a feeling they are going to want her in the pictures. I dont really want this... for one, they are not married yet (dont have a date set)... PLUS... even if it were one of my brothers, and they WERE married, I dont think I'd want hypothetical SIL in the photos! It just seems to me like it should be IMMEDIATE fam only... am I wrong? Should I say she can be in a few?