Sorry I stopped responding, ladies! I thought I'd marked my post to email me if there were more responses. I didn't get any emails, so I thought no one else was responding, and just realized you were!!!
I actually asked FBIL if I could post his drawstring story on here and he said SURE because he is so convinced he is right. I will definitely invite him on the knot, haha. Be careful what you wish for!!!! Someone asked how old he is-- 32.
The orange tuxedos are my FI's idea!!!! That is why he only has 49% of the vote and I have 51!!!!