So I worked in a small family like environment for six years so I obviously invited everyone in my office. Right away one guy told me how his wife was a BM in other wedding that day. I totally understood...well other guy who I thought we were the closest...told me three weeks ago that he was excited for my wedding the today I get a RSVP back w a no...with a nice note but he sees me everyday...he couldn't of came in and told me they could no longer make it. I'm super bummed at the fact he not going but ever more so that he did it so sneaky. Oh well...