So I am not over budget, and likely wont go over. I set our budget at $10k. I am paying for everything (FI bought the house). I just feel like right now everything I make goes to bills and paying off my Line of Credit. Which now looks like most of the left over wedding costs will be going.
I've had unexpected expenses that have not helped my dog got sick back in the fall ($350) and then my car broke last month ($800).
I know in the grand scheme of things it will all work out eventually. There are people with way more debt than me and struggle more, but I feel very very broke lately.
Really it's my own fault. I know people say to wait until you can afford the wedding (or whatever). But seriously, if I waited it would be years and years. And yes I am a bride who wants the actual wedding lol.
What I have decided to do now is every pay take out the cash I need for gas and a bit extra for myself and the rest goes to where it needs to be. I think I should leave my Visa at home too