rude coworker vent

enchantedonyx

So our weird security guard at work just always bugs me. He's asked me what my wedding date was at least once a week since we got engaged 8 months ago.

Last night, he walked past my desk and said, "So....getting cold feet?"
I said, "nooooo....I'm good."
Him: No, not you, I mean, your guy. He's getting cold feet, right?"
Me: Why would he? He wants to get married.
Him: Well....all guys get cold feet...He will

I rolled my eyes and went back to my work. Why does everyone else feel the need to comment on stuff that is none of their business? I just thought this was so rude. Especially to insinuate that a man might not want to go through with a wedding, especially to his bride-to-be 11 days before the wedding!

toothpastechica

I was working at womans shelter, where pretty much all staff are single (by choice) or divorced....all I heard all day is about how aweful being married is, how they cant understand why anyone would get married, and about how ``all men are cheaters``. Thanks guys...so glad your excited for me.......

enchantedonyx

I've definitely gotten some of that, too, from a married but miserable coworker and a twice-divorced coworker....

thanks guys...I feel so great about getting married, now....

caitlinc09

People are so rude! It's absolutely none of their business and you did not solicit their opinions. I wish people like this would just shut up and keep it to themselves. 

ladychambers83

I had a regular courier ask if we're still together..... Ummmm exxxxxcuuuuuse me?? So when I respond excuse me, what kind of question is that, yes we are. He then goes you sure you wanna do this? Really? Do I even know you like that.... ugh! I didnt even bother to entertain his blatant disrespect to me & FI

AurorasEnvy

Annoying...he's probably just jealous!

mandi921vh

That is so annoying!

Melissa51212

At my Bach party a thousand people were screaming at me not to do it...some were just being idiots joking but some people actually came up to me and told me their horror stories! My bridesmaids were getting so annoyed lol! I told one lady I'm a child of divorce and yes I still want to do it so shut up!

LilyWater09

Why is it that almost no one has anything good to say about marriage?  It is so annoying to hear.  I started saying to people if marriage sucks that bad then why are you not divorced?  And to the divorced, I say I would like to say "well if I need any advice on how to ruin my marriage I will come ask you."

Celticrebelgirl

being as how I am divorced I hate people who make those rude comments..I get alot of flake from work too..it totally sucks   . Its like really people??? my mistake was over 4 yrs ago...Ive learned and cant wait    I also love that we are actually getting married 30 yrs exactly from the same weekend FIL's got married...how awsome is that???