im very ticked off!
fi just found out this month that he is to be a groomsman in his cousins wedding next month. also just found out hes gonna have to shell out 200 for tux rental. okay so not so much upset about that but the lack of planning is crazy! weve known about the wedding for at least 6 months now but he only tells him now? hes known that he was a groomsman in ours since march (over a year in advance). they still havent even sent out invites or anything!
what really is upsetting me though is about a week ago cousin's best man calls fi to tell him about bachalor party. whitewater rafting and paintball in the poconos. fi has severe arthritis (has evwer since he was a child) he tried over and over to tell them he cant come but they all guilted him into taking this trip that he couldnt afford physically or financially. he got back a few hours ago and he is in do much pain he cant even move. i cant even tell you how frusterated at this whole thing! and honestly if they had told him about this a few months ago he could have gotten his treatments and been fine to go but since all of this is soooo last minute there was no way for him to plan!