Yesterday we went to FI's cousin's house for easter dinner. While eating dinner, his cousin A was asking what time the rehersal was so they could get on the right ferry over (her son is the best man). Then she was asking what color shirt BM was wearing, and I said white. She then tells me she wants to coordinate her, her husband, and daughter's outfits because she wanted "an updated family picture on the beach." Um...what? We are planning to do family pictures, etc after the ceremony, then during the cocktail hour we would go off with the photog for our pictures. But I didn't think I would be doing all these seperate family portraits! I expected to do pics with my family, like me with just my parents and just my brothers, etc. But I wasn't expecting for seperate family portriats. And they are not immediate family. I don't want everyone wanting to do this and monopolizing my photog's time and eating into our time with the photog. We only have her for 3 hours. She said she would pay for the pictures (I told her she would have to), but that really isn't the point.
Am I wrong here? Please tell me if I am making nothing out of this.