I read for hours last night and feel better. We have stuff left, but have chiseled away at our to dos. The one thing I am worrying about is looking and feeling great in my dress. You know when you see a girl in her strapless gown and her shoulders and arms look fabulous? I want to feel that way. I work out about 5 times a week, sometimes running, Jillian DVDs, or bootcamp class at the gym, or spin. I do a combo of all those, whatever fits in my busy week. Does anyone have some suggestions for upper body for a time pressed person? Thanks!