followup from my crabby bridesmaid

leahstinson

After she told me going to the spa with all the girls wasn't important despite knowing I paid for it and it was her gift. 

A couple days later she ended up texting me and "apologizing" She basically said she wasn't going because I was being a shitty friend. She was really mad that my matron of honor and I are so close and she was also mad because in her words, "i wanted to go to cleveland for my bparty and not what she was planning" which was dinner and a night of watching movies...no joke, NMS at all for a bachelor party. I asked if her in a text if we could do cleveland instead and I guess it was mean and hurt her feelings. 

So, I guess I get treated bad for being friends with my matron of honor and wanting to actually go out for my party. Oh bridesmaids. Karma, karma, karma

may25bride2012

That doesn't sound like an apology to me... Don't let it get to you. That's really crappy of her. Technically, you're not supposed to plan your b-rette party, but you should get some sort of say as to the kind of thing you want to do. I hope everything works out!

caitlinc09

That's unbelievably irritating. I'd probably tell her to shove it at this point in time. I'm sorry you've ended up wasting the spa money on her  

ladychambers83

Wow, what is it with weddings showing people's true colours?? So sorry you have to deal with this.

leahstinson

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_may-2012-weddings_followup-from-my-crabby-bridesmaid?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:f0ca0bc1-9255-4120-8042-b40e7f3e99c5Discussion:c959be8f-f8d6-48f8-a99f-cebe2ff3506aPost:3feb3444-7748-4384-bb3d-5cd238f581ad">Re: followup from my crabby bridesmaid</a>:
[QUOTE]That doesn't sound like an apology to me... Don't let it get to you. That's really crappy of her. Technically, you're not supposed to plan your b-rette party, but you should get some sort of say as to the kind of thing you want to do. I hope everything works out!
Posted by may25bride2012[/QUOTE]

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</div><div>i far from planned it. they asked me what i wanted to do and i said i'd love to go out in cleveland since the bar scene is better. instead she planned a night of.....going out to dinner and watching movies. i kid you not. why ask what i want to do and then plan THAT. </div>

leahstinson

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_may-2012-weddings_followup-from-my-crabby-bridesmaid?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:f0ca0bc1-9255-4120-8042-b40e7f3e99c5Discussion:c959be8f-f8d6-48f8-a99f-cebe2ff3506aPost:4dee2929-c86b-4730-8498-29f311350520">Re: followup from my crabby bridesmaid</a>:
[QUOTE]<strong>Wow, what is it with weddings showing people's true colours?? </strong>So sorry you have to deal with this.
Posted by ChocolateFlav17[/QUOTE]

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</div><div>YES! She is pissed because as she said it, she isn't engaged yet.</div>

may25bride2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_may-2012-weddings_followup-from-my-crabby-bridesmaid?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:f0ca0bc1-9255-4120-8042-b40e7f3e99c5Discussion:c959be8f-f8d6-48f8-a99f-cebe2ff3506aPost:c28206de-565b-477a-9454-c097b05b54c7">Re: followup from my crabby bridesmaid</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: followup from my crabby bridesmaid : i far from planned it. they asked me what i wanted to do and i said i'd love to go out in cleveland since the bar scene is better. instead she planned a night of.....going out to dinner and watching movies. i kid you not. why ask what i want to do and then plan THAT. 
Posted by leahstinson[/QUOTE]

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</div><div>Oh i know, I was agreeing with you! Sorry if that wasn't clear! I meant that, while you shouldn't plan it, you should have input on what you do. Hopefully that made better sense! </div>

mandi921vh

I am so sorry she is being so crabby!