okay, so we are roughly 3 months to the wedding and i am starting to really stress, but it is mainly brought on by my MOH. let me preface this by saying that my MOH has been my best friend for roughly 12 years, and we have known each other for 15. i love her to death, but she sucks at communication. at the end of january, i asked all of my bridesmaids to make sure that they ordered their dress, which all of them said that they did. my MOH stated that she ordered hers online. Not thinking any thing of it, I was relieved. However, I realized (about 2 weeks ago) that you have never been able to order that dress online. So, I called her. Days went by and nothing. I have tried to text her and email her and I have left her messages and she won't call me back. I know that she lied to me about the dress. The part that bothers me the most is the lie. I even told her in my email if she has money issues, to let me help pay for the dress, I don't mind. I spoke to my sister about this and the other issues I have had w/ her and my sister told me to kick her out of the wedding. But I refuse to do that because I want her by my side. I just don't know what I can do at this point to get her to communicate w/ me. I would rather her say that she doesn't want to be in the wedding so I don't stress about her getting her dress. Does anyone else have bridesmaid issues? I just want to throw my hands up and not worry, but this makes it impossible. Any advice on how I should handle this? Like I stated earlier, kicking her out isn't an option, but at this point I don't know what is. Please help me figure out a way to approach her so that it doesn't hurt our friendship but gets my point across. Thanks!!
