Right now I have a couple where the wife came to the shower and brought a gift (1 thank you), then a few days later we received an early wedding gift from the couple (2 thank you) and who I know will be attending the wedding as the husband is a GM. I've already sent the shower thank you and am about to send the early wedding gift thank you, but do I also send a thank you for their attendance to the wedding? I want them to know how much I appreciate every thoughtful gift and attendance, but three Thank You cards seems extreme. What do I do?
Also, this one couple includes a GM so an extra Thank You may not seem excessive, but what about those people who are sending the gift early and attending the wedding without being an member of the wedding party?