A few questions:
- Did you have yours printed or print them yourself? If you did yourself, what cards did you use/did you use a template?
- Did you do full first and last names on them? I've posted previously about FMIL frustrations and how she refused to cooperate and give me formal names for invitations. I was totally mortified when I sent an invitation to "Jay" and I got an RSVP back that had "Jason" written on it.
Is it totally inappropriate to just put "Mr. Smith" or "Mr. and Mrs. Smith" and leave off first names?