As you may know, i invited some single friends who at the time of inviations were not dating anyone and who added a + 1 to their RSVP and sent it back to me. My heart sunk to my stomach because i did not know how to address this...
So...today i made those phone calls and decided to not sugar coat it and just be honest....And believe it or not....they were all okay with it and now i am breathing a huge sigh of relief. It was ok for 1 or 2 people....but i had Aunts asking if their kids (our cousins) could bring guests...and it was starting to get out of hand. I was so scared because we are already on a tight budget and over invited thinking we would have a lot of "No" Rsvps given the weekend and travel/cost.
so iguess in the end, honesty was the best policy. everyone was okay with it...and its over with and they are still coming without their guests which makes me happy.